Going beyond the legal and social marriage
Marriages in India are a serious affair. A number of religious rituals are performed as part of the marriage ceremony. This lends a sacred touch to a relationship. A religious marriage was especially important in ancient times when there was no support of law. A marriage gets social approval when it is witnessed by all the family friends and relatives. The legal dimension adds to the seriousness making the bond stronger in every way. The aim of a social, religious and legal marriage seems to be a sanction for physical marriage. Does a social, legal and religiously performed marriage give the necessary integrity to the relationship? How many people go beyond the concept of physical marriage and understand the need for an emotional and intellectual marriage? It is only after the marriage is consummated that couples realize that they fail to connect with each other emotionally and intellectually. One must understand that the real strengths of marriage are emotional a...